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I just love how “grieving” equals “whiny” here because it’s a grieving dude.

“Angst Dissonance” = In fiction, however, no matter how justified the character’s complaints are there’s a delicate balance between enough whining and too much, and unfortunately characters that should have a right to angst can lose the sympathy of the audience if the audience no longer wants to listen. 

I haven’t lost someone myself, but I’ve felt some really fucking painful emotions. Calling someone whiny for grieving someone they loved is ridiculous.

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  1. enter-the-zion reblogged this from biowareconfessions
  2. chryssalid reblogged this from chakwas and added:
    YEAH, GOD, CORTEZ NOBODY CARES THAT YOUR HUSBAND DIED STOP BEING SO WHINY
  3. caedussolo reblogged this from chakwas and added:
    ^This… minus ‘friendzoning’.
  4. chakwas reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    OP does not understand Vega and Cortez, who are wonderful, fully fleshed-out characters, but otherwise, I like what he...
  5. specsamtraynor reblogged this from biowareconfessions
  6. rebelyell reblogged this from biowareconfessions
  7. luckylucian reblogged this from diamondunicorn08
  8. damnspacepirate reblogged this from biowareconfessions
  9. grappleraddiction reblogged this from biowareconfessions
  10. xelethaine reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    Steve’s husband died. Not even a year ago. He is grieving. And you call that whining? What? Also, Sam is a lesbian. Say...
  11. vilala reblogged this from biowareconfessions
  12. squishyeeyore reblogged this from ballsofgingerfluff and added:
    Steve: I miss Robert. GOD, Steve! Stop being so whiny!!!!
  13. getemblood reblogged this from diamondunicorn08 and added:
    called friendzoning when someone who...men turns Manshep down? What
  14. diamondunicorn08 reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    Hey, OP, shut the fuck up about Cortez’s grief. People get to fucking grieve as long as they damn well need, and express...
  15. phnuuby reblogged this from cme-alenko and added:
    …..Random Dude Vega ……*hugs Vega to chest* he is just jealous of your AWESOME !!
  16. maaseffect reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    mte biowareconfessions :P Personally I may never romance either, but I do love them both.
  17. cme-alenko reblogged this from lifeisacollage40 and added:
    Whiney……..*twitches* what is it with people and “whiney” if a character shows emotion.
  18. allyrantz reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    I mean yay for for Sam Traynor love always but there’s a few things in this post that’s getting some serious side-eye...
  19. ineffableigor reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    “Whiny” and “friendzoned” all in the same confession. I’m leaving.
  20. littlefingersbitch reblogged this from lifeisacollage40
  21. lifeisacollage40 reblogged this from ballsofgingerfluff and added:
    Ugh! I hate confessions like these. I happen to think Cortez is fantastic character and I have another mShep just for...
  22. ballsofgingerfluff reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    You heard it hear first, Fandom. If your husband dies, do not grieve. It makes you whiny. Also, confessor’s use of the...
  23. kailexanra reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    I just love how “grieving” equals “whiny” here because it’s a grieving dude....I haven’t...
  24. lieutenantcommandersexy reblogged this from zeowynda and added:
    HAH reblogging this again for that. that’s perfect. Traynor does not approve of this shit at all.
  25. zeowynda reblogged this from bagginses-ofbagend and added:
    Hokay, I don’t normally reblog shittastic confessions like...but I love that the placement...
  26. keelah-some-thigh reblogged this from terminus-systems and added:
    wait a minute did they just call cortez whiny you know i’d be fucking “whiny” too if my husband was killed
  27. catastrophic-minds reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    Excuse me?! Random Dude Vega, and whiny, whiny Cortez? oh I’m seething right now. Vega is such a kick ass character, are...
  28. missmokushiroku reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    Yeah, Cortez is so whiny, grieving over his husband’s recent death! FFS.
  29. umbrellatemplar reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    Grief does NOT equate to whining. Cortez was forced to leave his husband, his one true love to die. OP, try doing that...
  30. andtheniwaskilled reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    She is adorable and smart and brave. But her voice is SO. FUCKING. ANNOYING. I dunno maybe American Anglophiles like it...
  31. oldgeekfuckery reblogged this from biowareconfessions and added:
    Reblogging just for the tag grieving= ! whiny. Whiny is the go to adjective for a character you hate. Kaidan talks about...
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